So in the Buddhist scriptures, there is a genre called argumentation, also called argumentation; The meaning of the argument depends on skill, and it is necessary to not only have the principle of logic, but also pay attention to the organization and use of words, and be able to express just the right concepts and reasons. It's best that when you express it, don't use too abstract, can be lived, can make people listen to it, and feel as if it is something that can be accessed at any time in life, this kind of example, like a story, appears in front of him, in this way, he will be easy to accept; If you are completely using a way of preaching, persuading, and subduing, a way of conquering, and a domineering attitude, if you want people to listen to you, then unless you yourself have great authority, they will be uncomfortable to listen to, and they will also be disgusted, and the effect you hope to get is not easy to happen.
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There is also an attitude, it is necessary to use cordiality and sincerity, not to use the method of forced confession, not to use a suspicious and hostile attitude, if you use suspicion, hostility, use the method of coercing confession, using the method of confession, then people must be very painful, and people will definitely give you a very ugly reaction. So there is a term in Buddhism called love language, love language is not the love that tells us to fall in love, but the kind face, after people listen to it, they feel that you are very compassionate to him, you care about him, you respect him, and you can help him, help him; Although he doesn't feel that you are assisting him and helping him, at least he feels that you respect him very much, and you treat him as if he is a teacher, like his own bosom friend to ask him for advice, so when you talk to him, he will be happy to accept you, and at the same time, he is also very willing to tell you what he knows, then the communication between them can be unimpeded.
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Question: Nowadays, this society can be said to be more and more diverse, and at the same time, more and more emphasis is placed on freedom of speech, so whether in the East or the West, some people will make some inappropriate remarks, some involve personal attacks, and some violate the good customs of society. So as a modern person, how can you express your speech appropriately, so that you can express your own meaning without harming others? Venerable Sheng Yan taught: This is not a question that modern people need,..
